Is it a good love?

Love, love, love we all need her 2 be around , its absolutely the best feeling that our mind can create and it is also a state of mind.
Wean its a "good love" as i call her , she have the power 2 take out so much qualities ...you feel alive , excited at every think u do the work is flow creativity is just comming up and u feel safe & full of confident.
It's like feeling be at home, feeling so free 2 be just u without  any need 2 placate your lover only 2 enjoy the moment  but its a very diffrent story wean its a "bad love".
In fact it's very hard 2 c  at the beging of any realitionsheep ....at the beging the hormones talk, its like we dont have any abilety to c nothing nature calling us & we all need 2 feed our neads.
After a month or two we can c if its real and a good love, if it is a reletionship with a lots of stars, or some doubts begin to creep, or u start feel like u used 4 any reason its a problem.

Love from my point of veiw is to shere life together, the best realtionship that i had in my life was based on deep friendship and good sex , but without that "home feeling" and frinenship its never work 4 me, any time that i fellt that i have 2  behave  diffrent in order to fit myself  to other oun i knew that love  is face & it might be a god sex but not more then that.


Face love that give u more stars then fun allways comming from lack of self-love & if u not love yourself as much as u love the other you will macking 2 much effort to please & prove that u r the best at the end 100% u will find yourself alone so all we need is love ! yes !but let her be a good oun  & love yourself needy presone r realy unattractive.

 


© Lila Benharush