How dare you?

Its funny how sometimes we can,  miss the places and people that haven't been the best for us & a lot of time even been the worst

 There is no particular person or place we miss; we miss the comfort – the" safe zone"

  Significant change   in life can be terrifying more  than staying in the old pattern and habits.

 We may even miss the days   that ,there were not many options, or it was clear order in life and you know what to expect.

As we go deeper into a change people and places where you used to spend  your time with are become irrelevant ...thought we need sport the old own cant help they will always make the change for us even harder.

Asking the old environment help, it's like shooting yourself in the foot and did not understand why you can not run.

Environment and old friends do not want any change, they usually want you to stay at the same "swamp"  its comfortable and familiar, they mostly do not want to see that there is another possibllty for u and for them.

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 most of them  ,will convince you, that it will not work what  ever you would  like to do, they tell  u stories  of all of those who tried and failed, they'll tell you you're having a tough time and  that u are not really see things clearly, will blame u at

Selfish & that u think only of yourself and then to smash your desires they will look with a puppy eyes at u and tell they thought u are a true friend & u cant do it because

they're sick \ unemployed \ single \ or any athore creative story that will bring all your gilt up that u dear

Want to have a better life for yourself & if u haven't   agree yet  ,he will give u a  speishel motion that  u r the only own that can do!

 still they want hesitated for a mint to cancel a matting 5 mints before u going,they can easily live u a lone at holiday alone but softly they will say I  did 4 u didn’t want u to suffer I was in a tribally mood

And if u dear to speak again about your true wish they will use everything that  u say all your fears and doubt against you .

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Hard to see it! Difficult and painful to understand that

"They should be happy for my new way in life" u mumble to your self …

u cant except from people that want u to stay " small" to sport u wean u growing to new direction, it’s a threat for them and they will do anything to avoided u from action.

In time of change everyone that not sport you should be out of  your life coz they  are like poison there word could b running in your mind until u will believe them., and the change that u wish for will seem not possible

Friend and people that love you  ,true love will sport u

No meter what even if they think u goanna make a mistakes they trust  you and never will put there on benefit and there on need against your dream & wish if they do just know …that somebody who avoid you to go after changes and your hart , the last thing they thought about was you!

It doesn’t matter what u want to  do or  what is your dream  are , don’t  let anybody ever! Tell you that is not possible might be for them not for you

 

© Lila Benharush